Modern Wife Life

Well, kind of.  We're moving down the street to a different apartment.  Why?  We've lived in our current 2 bed x 2.5 bath town home apartment for about 8 months now and it's pretty safe to say that we don't use the second bedroom or bathroom.  The extra space is nice, sure!  It became my Etsy crafting space, bursting with fake flowers and baby mobiles.  Necessary?  That's debatable.
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This past June, a couple of days before our wedding, our wedding photographer met up with us to take some pre-wedding pictures and get to know each other.   We chose to take these photos on Berryhill Farm, where I grew up in Watertown, Minnesota.  It's 160 acres of beautiful rolling hills, lush woods, and Mud Lake (emphasis on the "Mud").   I have fond memories of growing up there, taking the motorboat around Mud Lake, riding our horses through the wooded trails, and cruising around on the golf cart with friends.  It was really special to be there with my husband.   It is a peaceful, sacred place to visit.  I can't wait to go back there in just a few months!

We are nearly two months into our marriage and it has been an amazing.  Honestly, it has been way better than I expected it to be.  And I had high expectations.

The idea of taking my husband's last name was really important to me.  I didn't know what that name would be until I met Wesley, but I always knew that there would be a day when I would no longer be Dylan McCann.  I loved my old last name and I felt like it represented my Irish roots quite nicely. And then there was the time where my high school math teacher and football coach kept calling me "McCann't."  Isn't high school fun?

When Wesley proposed last February it finally became real to me.  Dylan Jahraus.  Dylan Maureen Jahraus.  DMJ.  Oh, I was excited.  I started looking into the name-changing process.  I started buying "J" items to decorate our home with.  I created a new email address. And I started shopping for "J" and "Jahraus" motifs for wedding decor.  This was So. Much. Fun.

Everything was flowing smoothly until we hit Michael's one Sunday after church when they were having a sale.  Go with me on this one.  It was an incredible sale.  All of their "Alphabet Soup" items were 70% off, plus another 15% off with military ID.  The "Alphabet Soup" were home decor and craft items that came in every letter of the alphabet.  You could piece the letters together to make your own words or initials.  Basically, it's wedding planning heaven.

I found these really cool 3-D 7" galvanized metal letters that you could stand up on their end.  First, I found an "A", then an "S", then a "R"....  The vision hit me.  We should find all of the letters to spell our last name "Jahraus" at our wedding!  Yes, yes we should.

Unfortunately this store only had 4 of the 7 letters, but that wasn't going to stop us.  We drove to or called every Michael's in our vicinity... Point Loma, Clairemont, La Mesa, Santee, Poway, El Cajon, Chula Vista, Encinitas, and several more, even calling the ones in Minnesota.  We tracked down every other letter except for the "U", that darn "U".   We couldn't find it.  I toyed with the idea of dropping the "U" and calling it an oopsies, but that wouldn't leave a good impression on our wedding guests.  Wes thought he might be able to make one by soldering some metal.  Oh boy.  Should we just scrap the idea and return the letters?

On our last phone call to the Michael's in Carlsbad we found the "U."   It was two days before we flew to Minnesota for the wedding.  I was running around like crazy and packing everything into suitcases (including all of our flowers and wedding decor). Driving in traffic to Carlsbad would take me over an hour each way.  Ugh. It was the last thing I wanted to do, but I had to do it.  I had to go buy that letter "U."

The drive gave me some time to think.

First I started thinking that I was nuts, like maybe I was being a psycho bride.  I asked myself why I was so obsessed with completing this metal "Jahraus" sign.  Was it really that critical for the wedding?

And then I remembered that in just a week I would be marrying the love of my life and taking his last name.  To me the "Jahraus" sign wasn't just a decoration.  It was a way to honor Wes. It was a way to honor his family.  It was a way to showcase the family name.

I knew that our guests probably wouldn't remember the sign.  It probably seemed super insignificant.  But in my heart this sign represented so much more.  It represented honor, respect, unity, and the blessing of joining his family. I am so glad we found that letter "U."

Finally, 6 weeks later we got our wedding photos!  I have to be honest, only about 120 of the 700 photos turned out. Our photographer was great, but the company we used, Bellagala, used a separate team to edit and process the photos.  Basically, they took a hacksaw to them and cropped out our shoulders, foreheads, arms, hands, feet and other important details in many of the photos. Yeah, I was mad.  Hopefully they will be able to send us revised photos or at least the raw, unedited images.  Here are the top 15%!   The wedding video is linked at the bottom.